How to Talk to a Girl You Dream About
April 29, 2011 by admin · Leave a Comment
Talking to the girl of your dreams can be intimidating. It’s also easy to screw up. It’s not hard to get caught up and share too much, or try to hard. This can just push her away and lesson the chances of another meeting. Instead, try these simple tips to keep the conversation with your dream girl going.
Be Confident
It’s easy to get wrapped up and lose your confidence when you are talking to the girl of your dreams. This will make you come across as wimpy and not be attractive. It’s important to remember that she is just a girl, like every other girl, and keep your confidence up.
Be Natural
Don’t go out of your way to impress her, especially by making up stories or being someone you aren’t. Just be yourself. This is the most important thing to remember. In the long run, it doesn’t matter if you have a million dollar job or a nice car. It will become an issue though if you lie about it to impress her.
Have Some Topic Ideas Ready
Talking to the girl you dream about can be nerve wracking. You may not want to wing it entirely. It’s a good idea to have a few note cards with some conversation starters on it. This way if you start to lose your nerve you will have a back up plan. If you are talking to her in person, this of course won’t be an option. Instead pick a few topics before you meet up that you can easily remember to keep the conversation going.
Date Conversation Starters
December 9, 2010 by admin · Leave a Comment
When the conversation wears down on a date, it can create an awkward moment. A date with lulls in the conversation is not going to end well, and you may not end up with a second date. Here are some great ideas for keeping the conversation going.
Unique Experiences
Asking about unique experiences is a good way to start a conversation. Questions that require a little thought are always best. Ask about unexplained experiences, best bargains ever found, strangest food they ever tried, and other unique things will be a great way to keep the conversation going and keep their interest level up.
Media
Music, movies, and television are always safe subjects, but these can also be boring. If you find a way to twist it though, you may be able to pull it off. Keep the focus sharp, and keep the questions open ended. For instance, instead of asking about their favorite album, ask what a favorite album to clean the house to is. This makes the question more interesting, evokes laughter and fun, and requires thought.
Relevant Information
While having fun is important, you also want to get information that you can use to plan future dates. Questions about favorite foods, hobbies, and movies are all good questions that will give you some ideas for future dates. Remember to keep the questions open ended, and you can still twist them to make them more interesting if you spend just a few minutes thinking first.